We have all had that feeling: butterflies in our stomach when we see him, fast heart beats, nervousness, awkwardness and warm faces. And, as usual, he wanted you, chased you, got you until he got bored, and then walked away. We might all be in denial, not wanting to let go, thinking we can't possibly live without him, but we are all stronger than we think. All we have to do is believe, and stop waiting around for HIM to save us.
Stop waiting for prince charming. He is too lazy to walk out of his castle, and can easily replace you with another one of his princesses. Be your own hero, and stop living in fairy tales that were written by men thinking that we need "men" to save us and be our hero to live happily ever after.
The fact is that we are women. We can endure walking in heals all day, giving birth, shopping all day... We don't need men to save us. We are perfectly capable of saving ourselves. Just keep reminding yourself that you deserve better than someone who would let go of you in a heart beat. You deserve more than empty promises that "it won't happen again." You have to make him respect you, starting by respecting yourself and realizing that he is not the person you fell in love with, and it's time to let go.
It's never too late to start over. Just keep in mind to love yourself before you allow your heart to love someone else. Always remind yourself that you deserve to be happy.
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